As I’ve talked about in great detail at this blog and in my book, outcome independence, or OI, is the […]
Neil Strauss’s Book, The Truth
Man. It took me a long time, because it was a painful experience, but I finally got through Neil Strauss’s […]
Is All Sex Transactional?
There’s is a common argument these days that says, in terms of women having sex with men, all sex is […]
No Such Thing As Casual Sex?
Last week, I had to beat up a little on my traditional conservative bothers. Today, I’m going to have to […]
The 14 Types of Nonmonogamy
Nonmonogamy is not just one thing. There are many types and flavors, some of which I like, some of which [...]
Conditional Monogamy and One-Way Monogamy
There are some men who agree monogamy doesn’t work, while at the same time are really uncomfortable with the concept […]
Relying Too Much on Your Sexual Market Value
For thousands of years, women have used all kinds of dating and relationship techniques in order to date, marry, snag, […]
Sexual Compatibility
Many years ago, I was talking to a very cute woman on an online dating site. When I pitched a […]
Open Relationships: Won’t He / She Fall In Love With Someone Else?
It is the biggest fear people have about serious, nonmonogamous relationships. It’s one of the biggest excuses people make. Even […]
Having Multiple Girlfriends?
Every once in a while, I get this question from one of you, either in the comments here or in […]
My Responses To Men Who Are Pro-Cheating
Fair warning, this is one of those articles that is going to make a lot of you upset, and one […]