All My Skeletons
My public profile will increase dramatically in 2018, by design, as part of my master plan to hit my financial goals, as well as for my Mission. I have no idea how well-known I will eventually become. Either I will be well-known in the niches I want, which is all I really need to meet my objectives, or I will become well-known outside of these niches and into the mainstream, like what happened to guys like Roosh V and Mike Cernovitch.
I have no desire to become mainstream. Being famous is a huge pain in the ass, and I’m in this for money, not fame. (I want to make mountains of money and have virtually no one know who I am.) Regardless, it could happen whether I want it to or not.
As a contingency for that possibility, today I’m going to publicly disclose literally everything I have ever done in my past that could be considered bad or wrong. This is so that in the future, no clever reporter or private investigator can dig up something from my past that might embarrass me. (Not that I think anything below is particularly embarrassing, since I’m a generally good guy who has never done anything horrible.)
Most of these things I’ve described or mentioned before, but I wanted to list everything in one place. As of now, I never need to worry about these things “coming out” about me, because now they’re out! Here we go!
– I’ve never cheated on a woman in my entire life, but as I’ve mentioned before, I have slept with three married women who were still living with and legally married to their husbands. I even lost my virginity to one of them. (There were additional women I’ve slept with who were legally married at the time, but separated or going through a divorce, so I’m not going to include those.) Three is not very many women when compared to the overall number of women I’ve slept with, but there you go. For the record, all three of these women still love their husbands and are still married to their husbands to this day, so I’m not a home wrecker, and don’t believe in doing that. They just played around on the side a little because long-term sexual monogamy doesn’t work.
– As I talked about in my book, in the early 2000’s, I had some pretty serious financial problems. I was several years behind in my taxes and had my car repossessed. Obviously, I cleaned up all those problems a very long time ago.
– Almost a decade ago, when I was quite new to all this woman/dating stuff and didn’t check ID’s like I do now, I slept with an underage woman. It was a two-time thing and not an ongoing relationship. It was 100% consensual for both of us. I did not know she was underage at the time; I found out over a year later after she had moved far away (and yeah, it freaked me out). We parted as good friends, and though we haven’t communicated in many years, I still consider her a friend. (I will not answer any questions about her so as to protect her privacy. Like I said, this was a long time ago.)
– As I also mentioned in my book, in 2009, I spent about three hours in jail on four contempt of court charges which will show up on my FBI report. These were related to me not paying some alimony payments on time. I just bailed myself out and caught up the alimony debt later. (Money solves all problems. That’s why it’s important.) It was actually a very interesting and educational experience that I look back on with some fondness. This is the only time I’ve ever been found guilty of breaking the law other than a bunch of speeding tickets I had when I was a young man. As I’ve said before, the Alpha Male 2.0 follows the law even if he disagrees with it, since if you go to prison, you’ll have zero freedom.
That’s it! Those are all my skeletons, every bad thing I’ve ever done. I realize it’s not very much, but I wanted to be on the record with everything. If someone “comes out” with this stuff about me, they’re stupid because I already did. If someone comes out with something about me not on the above list, they’re lying, because that’s literally everything; there is nothing else.
If you are a semi-public figure, or even a public figure, I strongly suggest you do the same thing; go public with everything bad/wrong/controversial you’ve ever done, no matter how much it might embarrass you. This way, you can completely relax and never have something bite you in the ass later. It also demonstrates outcome independence, which is always a good thing.