I am a white American guy. This is the racial breakdown of the last seven women I’ve had sex within the last few months:
- 2 Asians
- 1 Russian
- 1 Latina
- 3 American whites
So just taking the last seven into account as a snapshot of my sexual current events, more than 50% of the women are outside my nationality, and 43% are different races.
I’m not “into Asians” or “into Latinas” like some white dudes are, so I don’t do this on purpose. Nor am I one of those “white women hating men” America has been producing lately. Actually quite the opposite; big-boobed blonde barbies are my all-time favorite and always will be. That being said, I don’t care about race. If she’s hot and doesn’t give me drama, I’ll have sex with her. Then I’ll categorize her later.
I could care less what race she is. Hotness and lack of drama matters to me, not race. Hell, the entire concept of racism or racial preferences is societal programming at it worst, and in the modern era has nothing to do with reality anyway.
Today is just some random thoughts and observations on different interracial combinations in terms of dating, seduction, sex, and relationships.
1. Asian men pursuing white women.
Asian guys have no problem dating Asian women, of course, and that’s a good thing, since Asian women are often also considered high-value to white men as well. White guys also seem to have no trouble dating Asian women. But Asian dudes going after white women does seem to be a big sticking point for a lot of Asian men.
The trouble Asian guys come up against when pursuing white chicks is the Asian perception among western whites, that is, that Asian men are considered weak, non-masculine, and a little nerdy. I’ll double down on this and state that many white women also tend to find Asian men spastic, hyper, and silly.
BUT HERE’S THE DEAL. I have seen first-hand what happens when an Asian guy goes out of his way to offset this wimpy image. Whenever I’ve seen Asian dudes hit the gym and get muscular, or join the military and walk around in combat uniform, these guys pull white chicks with no problem. I’ve seen this happen with multiple guys, multiple times. It’s almost as if when an Asian guy gets muscular and puts on a masculine demeanor, he becomes more attractive to white women than typical white men.
For example, I’ve heard some white women tell me about how “hot” muscular Asian guys are because they don’t have any body hair (unlike those hairy white bastards like me).
As much as I hate to give the overly-simple advice of “go get buff, then you’ll pull chicks”, I have to admit this does seem to work for the Asian dudes going after white gals. (Frankly, it will work no matter what your race is. Muscles are good.)
2. Black men pursuing white women
Okay, now this is a completely different thing than the Asian guy / white woman situation. Black men, by and large, already are more masculine than white guys. Compared to black men, it’s us white crackers that often look like pussies and nerds. However, this is both a blessing and a curse. Black guys often go too far with it, and often intimidate and repel white women away from them.
I can tell you for a fact that a huge number of white women either have a secret “black man fantasy” or would be perfectly willing to date (or fuck) a black guy as long as he didn’t walk up to her on the street with a “DAAAAYYYUUMMM gurl! You got dat phat AAAAAYYYUSSSSS!” type approach. And yes, many white women would never fuck a black guy, that’s very true, but just like when I talk about dating much younger women, you need to ignore these women fast and quickly move on to the next. Always put in the numbers!
One of the few types of men who I’ve seen out-success me in my seduction life are well-dressed, relaxed black men. When black guys dial it down a little, they are the smoothest, coolest, best-seducing motherfuckers on the planet. In many ways I’m jealous. (Shit, I’d love to be able to shave my head and still look good.) My son is black, and if he had a higher sex drive, more Alpha personality, dude, he would clean up.
Essentially I’m saying this: If you’re an Asian guy trying to get with white girls, jack UP the masculinity. If you’re a black guy trying the same, dial it DOWN.
3. White men pursuing Asian women
As I mentioned above, this is usually pretty easy. Asian women are definitely in my target market and any time I’m on an online first date with an Asian chick, she’s looking at me with longing doe eyes and a lay is in the bag. Even if she was born and raised in the United States. It’s like I have Asian chick pheromones or something. I’m a big masculine white man and I guess many Asian women are dying to fuck a man like this.
That being said, there are some pitfalls with Asian gals. Unlike us westerners, Asians are highly communal and complete slaves to their families. Asian women almost always have major relationship problems with their Needy Alpha fathers. Shame is a huge and significant ingrained component of Asian culture, far more than white folks understand. Because of all this societal programming, you need to be aware that when an Asian girl is considering you, she’s thinking more about how her friends and family will react than a white woman would be, even if she doesn’t intend on anything serious with you. Be aware of this. It’s huge.
4. White men pursuing black women
I can’t speak to this since I have never had sex with a 100% black woman. And believe me, I’ve tried. Pardon me while I go cry in the corner. Hey, I have had sex with a few half-black/half-white women, and a few half-black/half-Asian women, but that’s not the same thing. (OMG! Can I talk about how fucking hot as hell those half-black/half-Asians are? Holy shit! One of the few “tens” I’ve ever had sex with in my life was a black/Asian mix…highly recommend!)
So if you’re a suburban white cracka-ass like me trying to make it with a sista, I can’t help you. Sorry. The few white guys I know who have fucked many black chicks tend to live in the southern United States where black women are more plentiful, so maybe that has something to do with it.
5. Black men pursuing Asian women
This is another tough one. I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but Asians tend to be extremely racist against blacks, far more than white people are. (Side note. I once saw a stand-up comic from India state that the greatest trick the world pulled off was convincing white people that they’re the most racist race, when in fact if you actually look at the world, Asians, blacks, Arabs, Indians, etc are far more racist than the typical white person. Pretty funny.
I’ve been around the world myself and I can’t say I disagree.) Asian gals are going to either be repulsed by black men (unless the Asian gal is clearly overweight), or secretly turned on, in which case they may fuck you, but they’re not going to walk down the street with you hand-in-hand.
The few serious Asian woman / black man couples I’ve known always include an Asian woman who has been very Americanized and is extremely brave, essentially because she has to stand up to her family, who likely hates what she’s doing. Sadly, standing up to family is not something Asians do well. (The reasons for that are long and complicated. It all goes back to Confucius. Gotta love that societal programming!)
That’s it for the moment. If I had more time, I could probably do an entire post on just the different kinds of Asian interracial relationships (like Chinese dating Vietnamese, Japanese dating a Korean, etc), but that would be from my standpoint, an American white, so it would probably be better if an Asian PUA guy wrote up that one instead. 🙂
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