The core of this story belongs to Tony Robbins, though I have Blackdragonized it. For many of you, this is your story. Once upon a time, a lion cub lived with his mother and father in the pride on the plains of Africa. One day, a group of hunters attacked the pride. The lion cub… Continue Reading →
How To Dress Well
I don’t normally accept guest blog posts, but this article Darius sent over is so content-rich and real-world applicable, I’m making an exception. It’s written by Darius of sexystyleforjoe.com. The comments I added are in italics. -Blackdragon In his article Success Advice For Younger Guys, BD very accurately stated “Your physical appearance is YOUR FAULT”. The… Continue Reading →
How To Be Confident – 5 Ways You Can Be Confident As An Introvert
Today I’ll talk to all of my bros out there who are introverts at heart like me. Building and displaying confidence can be a difficult thing for all men, but introverts often have an extra dosage of barriers because of their more secluded personalities and desires. If you are not an introvert, some of the… Continue Reading →
Do Looks Matter?
Do looks matter? This is probably the single biggest debate among player dudes. Some guys think that looks absolutely matter and are the absolute make-or-break. Other guys think that if you’re cool, confident, dress nice, have strong game, etc, it doesn’t matter how you look, women will still lay you. Who’s right? The answer is: Both. It all goes back to the seduction point… Continue Reading →
Fashion Advice From A Pro
I recently was looking at some photographs of me from about 10 years ago. Yikes. To paint a picture, I was around 30, very married, very monogamous, family man, and had fallen into a lazy, preppy I.T. nerd look. And good god, did it show. I advertised all of these things by the way I dressed, the… Continue Reading →
How To Buy A Suit
I love suits. High fashion has never been my strong suit (pun intended), but I know suits. I’ve been wearing them since I was a teenager in the 80’s when wearing a suit with a t-shirt underneath was cool. (Stop laughing you prick. It was cool back then.) Even as a young dork in my… Continue Reading →
How To Cure Hair Loss
Big post today, and an important one. If you’re a man under 30 or a woman, this will likely not apply to you. At least not yet. This post is for the rest of you guys. I’ve talked before about how I was planning on getting a procedure done to deal with my balding head…. Continue Reading →
Facial Hair: Part 2
Guess what the most popular post is on this blog in terms of new organic Google searches? It’s this post right here on facial hair. I shit you not. There are days that one post alone is responsible for 15% to 20% of all new traffic. Amazing. Clearly this is something men would like to know… Continue Reading →
Facial Hair
As many of you already know I’ve carefully tracked the results of everything I’ve done in pickup, seduction, and relationships over the last four years or so. One of the things I can tell you with no uncertainty is that most women find facial hair more attractive on men than completely clean shaven. I don’t mean all women like facial… Continue Reading →
Improving Your Appearance – It Makes A Difference
I talk a lot about transforming your presence by using confidence and outcome independence, assuming a confident frame, moving commandingly, slowly, lowering your voice, etc. However I often tend to forget the pure physical side of appearance. In fairness to me, I do devote an entire chapter to it in one of my books, but… Continue Reading →