Once upon a time I had an MLTR in her early 20s whom I saw for several years. The sex was fantastic. She was sexually submissive, very nonverbal, and made lots of cute little feminine noises during sex. She had a very high sex drive, was extremely horny all the time, and it wasn’t difficult to make her cum. All wonderful. A+ in my book.
As is typically the case, she eventually did a LSNFTE, left me, and quickly got monogamous with an extremely needy, nice-guy beta male.
As is also typically the case, after about a year and a half of dating him, she started having sex with me again. She didn’t actually dump him; she enjoyed the ass-kissing and free stuff from her beta boyfriend too much. So she started cheating on him with me. (Ah, monogamy.)
All very normal and typical in my experience…until we had sex for the first time after being apart for so long.
During the entire time we had sex, she couldn’t stop talking. She was constantly barking orders at me or complaining. The sex was almost like…dare I say it…being married.
“Don’t kiss me like that!”
“My legs are cramping!”
“Your stubble is rubbing against my legs!”
“OW! My hair!”
“Hurry up. My pussy is getting sore.”
“No, don’t do that. Do this instead. I don’t like that.”
“Don’t touch my neck like that!”
“Could you just hurry up and cum already?”
It was a bizarre experience. It was the same body and the same voice, but it was a completely different woman from the one I had sex with almost two years prior. She had done a complete 180 from Submissive to Dominant.
Since demanding women are a huge turn-off for me, I actually had trouble staying hard, a problem I hadn’t had in a very long time. Finally, even though she had already cum twice, I said, “Forget it. Let’s stop. I can’t get hard with you.”
She suddenly became very concerned. (Ohhhh, women hate it when it looks like they don’t turn you on.) “Why?” she asked, “You don’t want to cum?”
“I can’t cum if I can’t get hard, and I can’t get hard with you.” I pulled off of her and rolled over, moving to put my clothes back on.
“Why???” she protested, her eyes wide and scared.
“Because you’re too demanding. That’s a turn-off. I can’t get hard with a demanding woman, much less cum. So let’s just stop.”
“Okay, okay!” she pleaded, “I’ll stop! Please fuck me!”
I eyed her, told her I’d try one more time, and then started again. Sure enough, she stayed quiet, but I could tell she was doing it for me and not her. At least I was able to get hard and finish, but it was definitely not what I would call an enjoyable sexual experience.
I knew exactly what was going on. After having beta sex with a submissive, needy beta who followed her orders and kissed her ass for so long, what she became accustomed to sexually was now completely different. Instead of being accustomed to having sex with a sexually dominant Alpha, she was now accustomed to having sex with a slave who didn’t to anything unless he was told, and did exactly what he was told, when he was told. This transformed her sexually from one woman into another, at least to some degree.
Sure enough, she told me about how she and the boyfriend would often hang out together over an entire weekend and not have sex at all. Back when she and I were dating, we would have sex several times a day on the days we were with each other, 100% of the time. Spending time with a woman I’m dating and not having sex with her is a completely alien concept to me. I literally don’t understand why a man would do this. (“There are other things a man can do with a woman, BD!” Yes, I know, and I do all those other things in addition to having sex. It’s not one or the other; a healthy relationship has both.)
When I asked her why she and her boyfriend would often go an entire weekend with zero sex, she would give the typical monogamous-wife excuse of “Usually I’m tired and don’t feel like it.”
She had never, ever said anything like that to me when we had been dating, even after dating for well past 18 months.
One woman, then another.
More Beta Males = More Dominant Women
I could tell you other stories similar to this. I’ve mentioned many stories about how submissive women will suddenly man-up and become tougher when they start dating a more submissive man. I see it often. The man changes the woman into a dominant.
We could argue that such a woman will again be a submissive once she dumps that beta and goes back to an Alpha. That may be true for some women.
Many of us guys like to think that the reason men are such pussies these days as compared to decades ago is because the evil feminists drove men into becoming wimps. This is somewhat true, but only to a degree. It also worked in reverse. As men became more and more beta due to various reasons (including laziness and complacency), women reacted to this by becoming more dominant.
Today, most women are Dominants. This is directly because most men have become betas.
Yes, you can blame dominant bitches and feminists for some of these men, but I also blame men for becoming betas. I don’t give men a pass on this; it’s their fault too. As I’ve shown many times, women are highly reactive and malleable creatures. They will react like chameleons to whatever men they date. If you’re a strong, dominant, outcome independent, high sex drive Alpha who doesn’t take any crap, she’ll more likely be a more horny, submissive, feminine girl. On the other hand, if you’re a needy, lovey-dovey, obedient beta who never nexts her and always puts up with her demands and bullshit, she’ll likely act more demanding, dominant, bitchy, and picky. (And she’ll cheat on you and have sex with men like me.)
Not all women do this of course, and some will change more than others, but a decent percentage of women will indeed react like this, at least to some degree.
That’s why the more betas in a society, the more dominant, bitchy women you’re going to have. That’s how this works.
That’s also why the more beta YOU are, the more dominant and bitchy the women you tend to date will be. That’s also how this works.
As usual, I don’t care about society since Western society clearly wants to drive itself off a cliff. But YOU can decide to become more Alpha and less beta, and just doing this alone will make the woman you date more feminine, sexual, submissive, pleasing, and less bitchy.
Try it and you’ll see.